I just finished reading the book of Job. Job and his three friends have finished their speeches, and then Elihu speaks up - a 'young punk' who waited until his elders had had their say (very polite of him); but his speech goes on and on for pages, saying basically, "I'm right - listen to me!"
I found myself scoffing a bit... what a fool. But then I remembered that we are are on the outside of the story. We know what has happened behind the scenes and we know what comes next. We know his is wrong. Being quick to judge him means that I am just like him...
And that got me thinking - Am I quick to judge and quick to speak? When others have a disagreement, do I itch to step in and correct? Yes, sometimes.
What's better? I need to pray for understanding for those involved, and recognize that it may not be my issue to interfere in. Pray for respect and good clear communication between them - not necessarily from me.
I need to let God's wisdom rule, not mine. Like we learn in Job, His wisdom in infinitely bigger.